So later on in the day July 16, 2012 ...

We got "the CALL"  that we've been waiting for 2 YEARS!!!  Around 4:30pm we received a call from our caseworker Melissa and she had me thinking it was a routine check in call that happens every 3 mos when she told me she had new paper work to talk about and that it was referral paper work.  I said "What?"  She asked if I wanted to call Brad and add him to our call which of course I DID!!!!  She also told me before hanging up that it was twins - of the boy/girl type.  I was SHOCKED to say the least!  I just didn't think that would be God's plan for our family.  We were open to twins if it was God's will and I just had my mind thinking that would never happen.  We kept telling people that God would have a great sense of humor to give us twins and I was beginning to hear him laughing!

After Brad and I talked to Melissa for and hour and a half my girls approached me as I hung up and they said, we know we are now sharing a room and we are ok with that!  Everyone was so excited and I think I saw the same face on my husband and my dad must have had 44 years ago when the doctor surprised him and told him his wife had just delivered unexpected twins.  Its a smile from ear to ear and Eyes so wide that the scream oh, my!  What do we do with 2!  We were referred a boy and girl set of twins that are 3 years old and they will turn 4 years in September.  We got many pictures (like 8) but they were not happy looking.  The pictures were taken on a day they had their physicals and they went to a place where the staff didn't speak their language.  I'm not surprised we didn't see smiles.  They looked so sweet and precious.  Three of the pictures have the boy putting his arm around his sister!

After only 1 week of letting the news of have two precious kids join our family (july 23rd) we got a call that we had a court date already and we were to leave on Aug 3 and get back on August 9th.  We were floored and over the moon excited with our heads spinning on all we had to do before going.  We were gearing up for the school year and yes we had just demoed our kids bathroom to the point that it was all studs and the only thing in it was a new tub - no fixtures, no toilet, no floor and no sink.  Yikes!  Also, I was to help lead in a Ethiopian Culture Camp that weekend.  Our committee was expecting 200 people to come together for a all day Cultural Event and a Ethiopian Dinner in the evening.  We were a little overwhelmed to say the least but about day 3 of our new news God gave us a peace like no other!  He has worked and provided so much in this last month and I will try to do it justice as we go.

That same night of our call about the court date we realized we have to work hard on our bathroom.  We had some help and Brad and I worked on finishing tiling the floor and we got a call in the middle of our work.  We were overwhelmed and decided to call that person back.  We climbed into bed at 1am that night and began to pray that God would be our provider.  We were exhausted and overwhelmed and knew that God was able to handle things and we WEREN'T!  After saying "Amen" Brad decided to check his phone for the message.  It was a friend of ours that knew about our referral but didn't know we were soon leaving for Ethiopia.  He is also a plumber and wanted to offer a tile guy that he would pay for his time if we could use him to tile our bathroom.  We listened and just broke down crying!  God in the very minute was providing for our needs in ways we could NEVER  come up with on our own.  That week God had spoken to many people who provided financially for the extra needs we had on adopting twins.  He were so blown away at how God was walking this road with us and he will continue to do so.

We unfortunately had just a brief shopping during this trip but this is the shop we bought our goodies.

This is a poor quality shot of a group of runners training in the athletic center of Addis Abeba.  Ethiopian runners are the best and after losing my breath climbing stairs proved to me that training in the altitude makes all the difference!

Eucalyptus Trees are harvested for fuel and building materials.
These were lined up to be used for a building site next door.

This is the site the trees were used.  This man is amazingly balancing while cutting the tree trunk
to the right length and lay it in place to be tied to another one.  This is just an amazing process.
 Ethiopians have so much ingenuity and use their resources amazingly.

Enjoying a cultural dinner with our travel group.  

We ate lunch on top of a 8 story building near Hannah's Hope on our last day in Ethiopia.
It was a great view and lots of building going on around that part of Addis.  

Gotcha Day 6 years Home

To celebrate Asher Gotcha Day Asher's sweet sister, Abby made him breakfast in bed - his favorite chocolate chip pancakes and strawberries.   All of our children are such a blessing and I love seeing them celebrate each other!  Even though that day we landed in Cincinnati 6 years ago is almost a blur with all the jet lag we had, it will remain an important memory for all of us and I'm thankful for pictures and video to remind me of that special day.  Asher wants to celebrate by looking at video of that day and Ethiopia which I love.

So sorry for not updating...

... but I've been busy doing life with my family.  I'd love to fill you in on all the goings on but I think we will just try some summer photos to catch up on what we've been doing.

We had a surprise party for Caroline's 17th birthday!

It was a cupcake wars theme with two teams decorating cupcakes.

The girls made 8 dozen cupcakes for the nursing home where grandma lives.

Chris and her Mom on Mother's day!

Asher and his teacher on the last day of school. 

She was the best!!!

Ice cream celebration for all the hard work of a great school year!

 

Spent an overnight in West Virginia while Dad was there for work.

My swimmers in the awesome endless pool!

Abby and I after riding the Diamondback.  First time for both of us.

Caleb in his first baseball season

The kings kangaroos had a rough season but came back strong

for the tournament and finished runner up!  Caleb stealing third!

Caroline has spent this first month of summer as an intern in Mexico and Caleb spent a long weekend in Jackson Kentucky serving with the Happy Church so we've had a different experience of just having 2 or 3 children at home.  A glimpse of things to come I'm afraid.

We are still in the waiting season of our adoption but there has been some long awaited referrals and  movement on the wait list.  We are now #26 for girls and #3 for twins.  We've updated our home study and raised our age parameters for a girl 1-5 years or twins.

School

This is a very short post written by yours truly, Caleb Ewing.






        Why IN THE WORLD do teachers give out hours of home work on days that you feel tired,  lethargic, lazy, and all you want to do is sleep, eat, and relax?


Ponder my question. (And make sure you come up with the right answer; That they deprive you of your free time.)


Thank you for wasting enjoying your time pondering my question.



           -Caleb Ewing

May the Force Be with You on Your Birthday!

Asher had his first friend party and as you can tell from the pictures the theme was Star Wars. We had jedi training in which the boys got a Jedi Robe upon completion. They fought Darth Vadar and destroyed the death star (pinata). They had galatic pizza and yoda sodas and ate light saber cupcakes. It was a great time and the boys were worn out at the end (and so was I).

The Jedi's upon receiving their robes and defeating Darth Vadar!

Happy 6th Asher!

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The pause button

Asher's 1st day of Kindergarten

Caleb (7th), Abby (4th) Caroline (11th)

Asher's Kindergarten class - it's a full one!

Have you ever experienced life where most everything you are doing is clipping along at a fast past, while one thing is your life is on pause?? This is how I feel our adoption journey feels like, like someone pressed the pause button. Life with four kids is very busy in the fall. We just finished two soccer seasons and the first quarter of school is over. Everyone is doing great in school and we are sooooo blessed with amazing teachers! I'm so thankful.

The courts in Ethiopia have reopened and we are waiting to hear the news of more referrals. Our October #s are 42 on the girls list and 11 on the siblings list. This second number seems so low but I still think the two should catch up to each other and we are around #5 for a four year old girl. So the wait continues but we are moving right along with being active with our current family members. I have to tell you that at times I need to remind myself that we are in this process. So much time has past that it doesn't seem real at times. I'm going to make myself and praying calendar so we can start praying regularly for "Rose" and keep her lifted up. Not sure what is going on in her life right now but God does and prayer is something I can be doing RIGHT NOW.

Life is good and we are living the current moment with prayer for the future of our family! Please join us!

Adoption Update!

You may or may not remember that we are in the adoption process. There are many days that this just doesn't seem real. The wait is long and seems to be getting longer but God is in control and His timing is ALWAYS good! We started the paper process early August 2010 so it's been over a year. We had all our paperwork turned in on November 29, 2010 and have been on the wait list for almost 9 months. We entered the wait list with #100 on the girls list and # 36 ( I think, can't quite remember - it's been so long) on the Siblings list.

We got our monthly updated numbers today in our email box and we are currently 51 for girls and 18 for Siblings so we are at the half way mark! Yikes! I hope we aren't waiting for 9 more months, but only God knows! Our parameters are for a 1-4 yr old Girl so with the older parameter it could be quicker but I've been saying that for 9mos. LOL.

We are praying we can bring our child home by next April, 2012 since that is when our finger prints expire but we can redo them without a fee and I'm preparing myself to do that and the first of the year.

We are staying busy with our current four so the time does seem to be going by pretty well. This school year we have a junior, a 7th grader, a 4th grader and a Kindergartener. Yes, I did say Kindergarten! Time has gone by FAST for that! Asher has been home for 5 years and we love to see how God is growing a wonderful young boy who is ready for school! I'll be keeping busy watching a few preschoolers so I won't be home alone as of yet.

So if you don't read an adoption update, it's only because we are waiting and really don't have too much to report but I'll try and keep you updated on our numbers but what is a number anyway?? Just some to distract you that's for sure!

Blessings!

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This is a few pictures and video from the wedding from our Ethiopia Culture Camp this last weekend. A rural wedding last around a week and the whole village is involved. The men accompany the groom to the brides house where her party is waiting. The women meet the groom outside and tell him that he can't come in. The men try to woo the women by squirting perfume and they have a brief encounter until the groom enters the house to take the bride to the ceremony. It was a wonderful time! Our family enjoyed it much!

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Summer Zoo Day!

Abby and Asher feeding the birds!

Asher's favorite animal is the Cheetah!

The new baby giraffe (my favorite) has a broken leg. Her name is Zuri!

Abby was able to feed the giraffe but I wasn't quick enough to get it on film!

It was a fun day with my two youngest as the older ones are on missions trips.

I'm passing my time waiting by making sure I'm living the present and logging in fun memories with them now. Time is flying even though the wait seems to be creaping along.

Sorry for the lack of posting. I actually have been keeping busy so far this summer. Hope to capture more of it on film so I can blog about it.

So we are STILL waiting and I think our number is now in the 50s. We will get an official update in a few weeks. So to pass the time we are enjoying our summer days. Abby, Asher and I spent a great day at the zoo!

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Perspective

Isn't it true that we have NOTHING to complain about. I do often and mostly I just need a good perspective. Wow, if you need a good perspective on life read this. Thanks Amy!

Easter

He is RISEN! He is risen indeed!

Our Easter four on the back porch.

So green from ALL the rain we've gotten.

The family meal with Grandpa Shipley and Grandma Ewing

and Uncle Gary (taking the pic)


The Easter Couple

The Brothers

The sisters

Waiting!

We are currently in a big season of waiting. In our first adoption, we were amazingly blessed with a short wait. The whole thing took 7 months from the first phone call to picking him up in Ethiopia. We've been on the waiting list for 5 months and have officially moved from # 100 for a girl to #68 but really for a older girl there are only a hand full of families in front of us which gives us the false hope of a quicker wait. There haven't been many referrals in a while and it really makes the wait seem longer.I've done lots of waiting in my life time but not really thought about the process much! Have you? Waiting is annoying to most of us and I act as if I'm too good for it sometimes, like waiting in a doctor's office or in line at the store.

But really waiting can have it's purposes. I've decided to list some:

1. sometimes it gives us a moment to reflect

2. gives us time to rest if we take it

3. helps us to look at others around us

4. helps us to stop and listen (sometimes to God)

5. sometimes it slows us down when we need it and wouldn't do it ourselves

- i know of times when God uses this to speak to us or even save our lives!




I'm learning that when God asks us to wait

1. It can be an opportunity not just a nuisance

2. we are to serve in our waiting and not just sit around - I'm so good at this (sitting, I mean)

3. we usually need to be removed from the waiting to see the reason for the wait

4. God will teach me during my wait if I ask him too (not really good at asking)

5. Still learning about waiting and will continue to do so.

6. That waiting for something a second time is a bit easier cause you know that it does come at the end of waiting no matter how LONG the wait is.

Please feel free to share your lessons of waiting. It may help someone else today - like me!

Habakkuk 2:3 (Good News Translation)
"Put it in writing , because it is not yet time for it to come true. But the time is coming quickly, and what I will show you will come true. It may be slow in coming, but wait for it; it will certainly take place, and it will not be delayed."

Out of the Month of Babes

I just love the things that preschoolers say. Asher says some of the funniest things but I have to say that I don't write them down and I know I've lost some really fun moments in his life by not taking the opportunity. Many days I wonder what is making his mind come up with the things he says. Recently, Brad has been tell stories of his father, Grandpa Ewing, to Asher. Caroline was the only grandchild that was able to have time with him since he passed away 15 years ago. She was only 13 months old so doesn't have a working memory of him either. We miss him and just want to pass on the stories for our kids to get a flavor of what a wonderful, Godly man he was and how much fun he had with his family. We are sharing a part of their heritage. So after a night of Brad sharing some Grandpa Ewing stories the next morning I was taking Caleb, Abby and Asher to school when Asher started asking questions... " Mom, can you call Heaven?" I start to answer him by saying well we can with prayer but not an actually call to Grandpa or anyone else. There was a small pause and then Asher said, "You know I love the smell of Caleb's deodorant." Huh, whaaat? He just mixed the deepest thought he's ever verbalized with the shallowest thought in less the 30 seconds. Go figure the thought process of a preschooler. But it does demonstrate his high sensory needs. :) Some of the crazy things that comes out of the month of babes. I love talking with preschoolers! What a blessing!

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Here is some video and pics from the dinner.

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Ethiopian Dinner

This weekend we had our Ethiopian dinner to help raise money for the Ethiopian Family Culture Camp we hold every summer. This is the second year and we are amazed that 200 people are interested in Ethiopian food and culture in our area. We have to turn people away because of the space and amount of food we can make. Since I was working it I have very little pictures but here is one families experience at the dinner. We had dancing, injera making (Abby helped to make it and is in these pictures) and of course the coffee ceremony! It was a great time of just celebrating the rich Ethiopian culture! I'll try and down load a video of the dancing later on.

Praise You In This Storm w/ Lyrics!!

Praising Him - No matter what is going on

It has taken me a long time to get to the point of praising Him in my current situation and maybe this post will give you an idea why this blog has been so sparatic. The last 6 months + has been very emotional for me and draining for me. And that is why it's been hard to Praise Him through it. I was so focused on me through it. Ok, let me give you some details.



This is a photo of my mother at my wedding which just so happens was 20 years ago
next month. My mother at my wedding was a radiantly beautiful person and the host of the party. She LOVES people and loves a good party so she was in her glory that night at the reception. She also is a person who has spent most of her life living for others being a mother of 6 children (which I'm #5), as any mother knows lots of sacrifice here like 6 hour swim meets, making costumes for dance recitals and many others; she took care of her mother when after her father died, she voluntered at a nursing home, made endless meals for others who were sick or recoverying in bed, and visited many people in the hospital.

So I wanted to give you that picture of who she was then and has been for so many years between then and now but life has pitched a curve ball towards my mother and she has spent the last 5-10 years suffering from Parkinson's. It was almost two years ago that I sat in a doctor's office and found out that my mother also has altzheimer's. These two dieases have been taking away the close relationship I've had with my mother and 6 months ago our family had to put her in a nursing home to help care for her. This has been a hard time for me as I am slowing grieving the wonderful relationship I've had with my mother and trying to figure out how to show my love to her in her current state. I've taking far to long to Praise Him in this storm because I was focused on my and my emotions. But I do praise Him!

Heritage!

We've taked a bunch this weekend about heritage. What it means to our family is not just american, scottish, germany, welsh, english and ethiopian. Our families heritage comes from all of those countries and it means to do some celebrating, eat some great food, lots of learning and making connections. I love that we live in a city that we can experience heritages. Some we are connected to and some we are learning and just enjoying cause I love other cultures. On the third annual trip to a Greek festival my oldest son turned to me while eating some yummy food and said, "Mom are we even Greek". My response was no but isn't it great to experience this and we didn't have to leave our city.

Though we love heritages and cultures and to learn new things our biggest connection we want to make for our children is to our heritage in the Lord's family. No matter what culture we come from or what nation, we all were created in God's image and if we've receive Christ as our saviour we are adopted into God's family and our heritage is in Him. We first and for most our children of God. I love to learn differences of people around the world but I long to make connections of us all that only God can do - to be brothers and sisters in Christ. No matter what nation, social status, economical status or age or anything. The one label that removes all other labels is to be a child of God. 1John 3:1 - "See how great is a love the Father has lavished on us that we would be called chilren of God and that is what we are!"